life&politics: (Manipulative) Girls.
So like, a whiiiile back, there was this girl I met who I thought was cute, right? Of course, I befriend her and start talking to her. After some time, I make a few subtle moves, and she responds by friendzoning me up the ass. I mean, bigtime.
I’m thinking, okay, she just doesn’t see me the…
I know how this feels.
It bothers me when girls complain to me about their guy problems and then say that I would be better and a great boyfriend compared to who they are with. However, they would rather stay with that guy and keep me as a friend. In my head I’m thinking “you’re basically saying that even though you know the vaccine will cure you of your disease, you’d rather not take the vaccine (despite knowing its benefits) and die”.
It makes me feel like I’m just a guy women talk to in order to make themselves believe that their guys can become like me someday. If not that, it makes me feel like women just say that “I’m the perfect guy” because they’re in the moment.
I don’t know what they want.
But I know that this is a misunderstanding on both sides.
Men, according to studies, are more physical than emotional (sex>love). Therefore, men have a tendency to use their physical attraction as basis for their feelings towards somebody. This is why men have such a hard time being just friends with the opposite gender. Any chance a man gets to score with a female friend, he’ll take it.
Women, on the other hand, are more emotional than physical (love>sex). This is why women are more torn when they hear that their significant others like another person than when their significant others kiss someone else and say that they do not have feelings for that person (true story). For women, they really need that emotional bond. This is why women will not hook up with a guy friend when given the chance (no feelings= not a chance).
Most women are more likely to put men into friendzones because there are no emotional connections for them, and it is less likely that a man will put a woman into the friendzone (as long as she is decent looking).
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nguyentimwin reblogged this from andrewtruongphotography and added:
Most def relatable
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blueskymutiny said:
true, a lot of girls are good at manipulation. another reason i can think of is that she can’t make up her mind whether she wants to try dating you or not. &/or maybe she doesn’t think of you romantically but wants to keep you in her life as a friend
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sangdavidhan reblogged this from itsneekoh and added:
know how this feels. It bothers me when girls complain...me about their guy problems and...
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